Do you may have a burning need to be in a dedicated relationship with a tremendous man however end up at all times working again to your ex? If that’s the case, do not feel dangerous. I used to do the identical factor. You see, I had this sturdy need to be with a person that will love me, honor me, be my greatest buddy, and somebody who I really loved spending time with. So on my journey to assembly this man, I’d meet and date males on and off. Nevertheless, throughout my off time I discovered myself working again to my ex. At first I’d begin with a easy textual content or a telephone name. I simply needed to see how he was doing and what was happening in his world. Then we’d begin spending time collectively. Lastly, I discovered myself having intercourse with him. Do not get me incorrect the intercourse was good however I observed this began to change into a sample. Why did I at all times run again to this man who I had no intentions of being in a dedicated relationship with? I did not really feel responsible after having intercourse with him nonetheless; I knew that this conduct was not going to assist me fulfill my imaginative and prescient of my love life. After doing a little considering and actually understanding my scenario, I got here to the next conclusion: I feared being alone. My ex was my consolation zone. I used to be really afraid of beginning a critical relationship as a result of I feared what may occur. Chances are you’ll be in a scenario the place you might be consistently working again to your ex however you need to decide. Are you going to shut the door to your previous so that you could obtain the person that you really want or are you going to proceed to self-sabotage your love life? My ex was bodily baggage. To ensure that me to draw the person that I’m with immediately, I needed to let him go. Sure, it was onerous however I did it anyway. Throughout my in between males stage I start to worth myself, be taught extra about myself, develop my relationship with God, and overcome my self-sabotaging behaviors. So, it’s time to decide. Let your baggage go or proceed to self-sabotage your love life.